The illusion of being special

Specialness is a contradictio in terminis
If every-one is special then no-one is ;-)

Specialness can only be.....in-relation-to....
This "being-in-relation-to" is no more or less "relative"
And what is relative, bears no truth......

The part, in the sentences above, that I left out, is the one thing that specialness needs the most: (a) ME.

It is the “ME” part that brings specialness into “being”, but this is a relative reality……

But to a “ME” it works the other way round to,….the “ME” sees (creates) a special reality and makes it “personal” by putting itself in the middle,……

So without “specialness” there would be no “ME” ……

But, argues the “ME”: I am, I exist, there is definitely a “ME” …….a seemingly contradiction no?

Until we start investigating this “ME”, the “ME” that does all of the talking, the reasoning, the thinking, the “ME” that we so easily mistake ourselves to be……

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The use of words, in itself, limits us......it can only be used as a tool to point to something, that only can be talked a bout in a conceptual way, until you can relate to it in your own experience......

And we can use the tools differently, all in favor of our own particular needs.

We are all "special" and we are all not, I see no contradiction here, do you?

Does nature discriminate?
Only to "ME", things, occurrences seem to be unfair......but does this make it to be true? Isn't it not just a relative view of a "separate me"?

So "Specialness" holds the key to both separation and unification, we all are special, unique......and in the same time, because it applies to all of us, it unites us into ONE BEING......as in "BEING ONE".

Don't we all share the ONE life? Was there a time we were disconnected from life?.......In time we always were (a life) alive.

Was the start of the "special you" not a merge between an already alive sperm and an alive egg?
Life was there all the time, we are IT ;-)